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Cougars vs. MILFs: What's the Difference? Plus, the 10 Best Cougar Bars In America

Question: What's the difference between a cougar and a MILF? Does anyone understand this? Is there a certain age requirement for cougarhood, whereas a MILF can be young as long as she's a mother? (Though, would anyone ever call one of MTV's Teen Moms a MILF?)

Or is the distinction that a cougar is "on the prowl"? The cougar enjoys the company of a younger gentleman. Is that it? Miranda's a MILF (well, sort of) and Samantha's a cougar? Right? A Venn diagram would be helpful here...

Anyway, specifics aside, we know that a cougar is a hot older lady and now, thanks to Maxim, we know the 10 best bars in the country to find one. (And then maybe she can help us understand the distinction...)


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