Finding the Balance Between Caution & Joyous Free Fall: My 8 Dating Resolutions for 2020

“Every day there’s a new Facebook engagement but I have to remember: that has nothing to do with me. If I get married next year or 10 years down the line, my choices are still valid and I can still be happy.”


On Making, And Adhering To, A Perfect Boyfriend Checklist

The older I get and the more I date, the less I actually know what I should be looking for in a partner.


This Is Why I Write A Dating Diary

Honestly, writing a dating diary has sometimes messed up my life. But so has dating. Love is pain, man. Let’s talk about it, maybe over a drink.


W4M: U Are A Man Of Action

I am basically waiting around for the men to make clear their intentions without much thought as to what mine are.


It Is Not Possible To Date A Musician (I’m Convinced)

Spoiler alert guys: It always ends in pain. Someone will eventually die. In this case, we hadn’t even started dating.


Getting Off the Bad Date Merry-Go-Round

Sometimes it seems easier to just stick with the known entity than risk any surprise.


A Sign From Above: It’s Time To Repent My Dating Sins

My ex didn’t place my cat’s butt over my face while she defecated, but really he might as well have.


I Decided So It Must Be True: Being Single Is Super Awesome

Where is the one cute guy that’s never dated and who doesn’t own a dungeon?


Internet Killed The Dating Star: On Googling and Facebook Stalking

If this were the 80s, maybe I’d have given him my number already and we’d be on our way to a Devo concert tonight.


Fake It ‘Til You Make It: Good Idea, Bad Idea?

I don’t want to end up like Katy Perry.